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I can count on one hand how many non-black men I’ve dated inside the United States. But now that I’m living abroad, I might need your fingers, Clutchettes. After studying abroad in Europe, and now, living in Brasil, I’ve had the opportunity to explore my options as a single woman. In my adult years, I’ve never been closed off to dating non-black men in the United States. But I also have not been pro-active in being open to those experiences. Thanks to the romantic aura of wanderlust, plus some all-shades-of-beautiful men, it seems like living outside of America has officially made me an equal opportunity dater.

“I’ve dated interracially for years now and it’s just not a big deal for me. I find men of all colors, creeds, and walks of life attractive, and don’t limit myself to Oneika Raymond dating one particular race,” says avid traveler . “I am currently dating a white European guy, but before that was involved with a black man from the Caribbean. That being said, I have seen a lot more interracial couples outside of North America, particularly in London, where I live. I’ve seen way more black girl/white guy pairings here than anywhere else I’ve ever traveled.”

I have to admit. I found my experiences studying abroad in London to be the same, and in several other parts of Europe. Black women are enjoying relationships with men of many hues. And it seems like our interracial dating prospects are far more open. It’s one thing to be sought after as purely an exotic representation of black beauty and potential sexual commodity. But it’s another thing to be admired for our physical exquisiteness, multifaceted cultures, powerful intellect, and unique personalities. Black women are being loved as multidimensional human beings abroad and by more than just our brothas.

Jennifer Poe, who once lived in Argentina, confesses, “I notice when I’m abroad, men that are of a different race than me are more vocal and bold about approaching me. When I’m back in the States, they will check me out, but not approach me. I think dating interracially is easier abroad.”

Many black women who have traveled abroad have reported the same. In countries that we are particularly a noticeable minority, we often get more attention than in the United States. Call it coincidence or maybe just that we’re not paying close enough attention on American soil, but the flirting tends to be more apparent.

Interracial dating

Interracial dating: Should black women find love outside America?

Nicole Blake adds her perspective, and reveals, “In Germany and many parts of Europe, there just aren’t that many black women here. The men that have been curious about dating interracially don’t have the same access to black women that the men in the United States have. I think this leads to a greater appreciation almost to the point of worship. It’s not to say that this lack of seeing black women doesn’t also lead to a fair amount of sexualization and being the object of one’s fetish but this distinction is one I also had to make in the States, is he interested in me for me, or do I mark off the Black girl check box?”

It’s a fair question, one that makes many black women think twice before jumping into the interracial dating arena. Of course, with any human interaction comes curiosity, but if we are indeed just a check box on a non-black man’s checklist, it’s certainly fair for us to call foul.

Blake continues, “Dating interracially can also be more complex in Europe. As Chris Rock once said when talking about black people’s relationship to White Americans, ‘we don’t got time to dice white people up into little groups.’ This is not an effective strategy for dating men abroad. In Europe, there are the French, Spaniards, Italians, Germans, Brits, Scandinavians, etc. All these men, aside from speaking various languages, exist in different cultural contexts with different dating norms. Who makes the first move, kissing, sex on the first date, the definition of what a date actually is: these vary from country to country. It takes a bit of effort in trying to sort how it all works.”

Just as black women are not monoliths, neither are our non-black male dating prospects. While non-American cultures might facilitate easier introductions and more interracial dating opportunities, those of us who are interested should be invested in exploring different dating styles that may reign in a particular country. What you may interpret through your personal cultural references may not be your potential mate’s way of thinking. But all in all, it’s important to be open while dating in general, and for those open to interracial love, perhaps leaving the country is the perfect way to fill your travel craving and find romance.

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Are dating websites a good way to meet your match?

In the lead up to Valentine’s Day, the pursuit of love is on people’s minds.

On Monday we reported on a comprehensive study of online dating. The week is nearly over, but that story is still generating the most comments on CBC’s Science and Technology page.

Few of you were surprised that online dating has become the second most common way for couples to meet, and that the phenomenon has grown rapidly in popularity and social acceptance.

Many CBC readers responded to the study by offering their own experiences with online dating. Tim Wooden emailed us to explain it this way:

“Looking on a web dating site is like shopping in the grocery store: lots of meat, some veggies and whole lot of processed stuff. Packaging is important and unless the person has a video shot, no sampling available until the first date. Oh and everyone lies, some a little, others quite a lot. Lots of misses in my case, but also success: married and happy for 5 years.”

In the spirit of weighing the pros and cons, we have put together a bit of an informal debate. Read the following points – seven for and seven against – and then vote on the most persuasive side.

Free dating

Free dating is a-ok!

  • “I met my partner online, 7 years ago. Today we’re happily married with two wonderful little kids. I think that the internet is just as valid as meeting people at a bar or club because I can guarantee you that there’s at least one creep in every bar/workplace/coffee shop/library/grocery store for every creep you’ll meet online because, unfortunately, creeps are allowed to leave their homes.”
  • Free dating works great for us rural people where most people are your or your ex’s relatives. Really increases size of free dating pool.”
  • “It’s certainly not firmly grounded in any falsifiable, scientific method, but my girlfriend and I are very happy we met on POF. She likened the experience to ‘garage sale shopping’ wherein you have to sift through lots of junk to get to the good stuff – it’s a way to rapidly eliminate poor choices and saves everyone a lot of time. It’s also good for my self-esteem to think that she selected me out of a litany of other potential options when traditional dating involves a much smaller pool of potential applicants within a few degrees of you in your social network. Hooray for internet dating I say!”
  • “I have at least 6 friends who met their current spouses online or through another kind of personal ad. All I know is they’ve had way better luck than they had on blind dates (friends assuming if they like both people, the people will like each other), meeting someone in a bar or (worse!) at the office. Of course there will be some nightmares, but at least you don’t have to see them at your work/school/pub, nor explain to your pals why their buddy was not for you!”
  • “I’m a very social person with loads of acquaintances, co-workers, etc, but I found myself in a rut with my social circle, and no real “qualified applicants.” ;) I found online dating to be a nice way to broaden my circles and meet new people who I just would not have had the chance to meet in real life. It was a good experience, and I didn’t meet any nightmares, and I met one lovable man who wanted to love me back.” – Maggi Beagles
  • “Personally I don’t think there is anything wrong with free dating. If you’re honest with each other from the start there won’t be any problems. That is how I met the man of my dreams. I met him on the site called are you interested. To this day I don’t regret meeting him, or how I met him. Everything happens for a reason…Life is about taking chances if you don’t take it you will regret it.”
  • “At my age, 51, I find it difficult to tell if a woman is already in a relationship; many no longer wear wedding rings, as they aren’t married, but ARE living with a partner. With online dating, you have a much better chance of reducing those kinds of awkward situations and are better able to narrow your focus.”

Online dating

Online dating – stay away!

  • “As a woman I notice the same men on these sites for 6 years now. Yes, some people are on the sites as voyeurs, and not really looking for dates. In the three-town area that I live in, it has been mostly the same men on the sites for many years. I’m a good looking slim woman, and professional, but never get asked for a date.” – Rosemary M Bergenham
  • “I have several friends using the online dating sites, both men and women. I noticed they became addicted to it, especially ‘Plenty Of Fish’ because it is free. All of these people I know have had trust issues with the people they meet and have not been able to hold a real relationship.” – Tina Henry
  • “I have a friend who met a guy online…they talked for almost a year then she decided she was going to meet him face to face and he was all gung ho for that, but when she actually flew there to meet him at his house he freaked because his pregnant wife was home. Needless to say she ended up stranded in an unfamiliar city for a few days before she could fly home.” – Deanna Dunlop-Muise
  • Online dating is just another version of going to the bar. Just another meat market, so to speak. Why can’t people just find each other without other people making hoards of money off of them?”
  • “I tried eHarmony once. Definately not enough ‘matches’ to go ’shopping’. I went on one date with someone who couldn’t have been more of a mismatch. Quit right afterwards. Waste of money, time, and hope. A friend of mine uses Plenty of Fish all the time. Just a long string of losers looking to get laid.”
  • “It is pathetic. Visit some computer labs at the various community colleges, in particular some of the men’s trade colleges. Just perceive how they behave, listen to how they talk if you can bare it. The woman aren’t any better, better liars if anything. To find a decent spouse nowadays is like trying to find hay in a stack of needles.”
  • “I know several people who have hooked up through eHarmony – none of their relationships seem good or healthy and most have been through several rounds of dating their so-called ‘matches’. I think on-line matchmaking is another example of how our busy working lives and technology are honing in on genuine human contact. Shut off your computer – get out there and do activities you love – find other people who love the same stuff as you do. Do some traditional dating and then get married!”

Which side made better points, do you think? What’s your assessment of online dating? Share your thoughts and anecdotes below.

Sandra Bullock

Sandra Bullock not dating Jonathon Komack Martin.

Sandra Bullock is not dating Jonathon Komack Martin.

The 47-year-old actress was rumored to have hooked up with Jonathon – the business partner of her best friend Ryan Reynolds – at a private party in Los Angeles last month.

A source told Now Magazine: “They met years ago, but nothing ever happened – until now.

Sandra Bullock been spending time with him, going to parties or just hanging out at her house. She says they both have the same silly sense of humor.”

But the ‘Blind Side’ actress – who divorced ‘Monster Garage’ host Jesse James in 2010 amid reports that he had been unfaithful – insists Jonathon is just a good friend, and that she only has eyes for her adopted son Louis, two.

She told US website Gossip Cop: “For over a decade now, I have been so lucky to have Jonathon and Ryan as my friends, and I agree with the reports that they are both very handsome and a great catch!

“But the only man who has stolen my heart is my son. And for now I wouldn’t have it any other way!”

Kris Humphries

Kris Humphries Dating Kim Kardashian’s Opposite?

Kris Humphries is currently in the process of divorcing Kim Kardashian after spending just 72 days together. And according to tabloid reports he’s already moved on and has his eyes set on a blonde sexy Latin singer.

A source told Star magazine that the New Jersey Nets baller has been dating a new girl named Sammi Benz. “They have been casually dating off and on, but it’s starting to pick up. During a night out at Cipriani Downtown on Jan. 29, they were very touchy and having a great time together. They were holding hands and Kris was caressing her face.”

Kris has said he’s into brunette chicks, and Sammi is blonder than blonde could be, so this report definitely sounded a little fishy to RumorFix. We reached out to Humphries’ rep who tells us, “This is 100% false. She [Sammi Benz] is actually a friend of Kris’ best friend Josh. Kris has spoken to this girl maybe once. She is connected to Josh, not him. So please fix rumor.

Valentine’s Day

Barcode: I’ve just started dating her, and now it’s Valentine’s Day.

I started online dating this girl a week ago, and now it’s Valentine’s Day. I like her, I think, but it’s not like I’m planning to marry her. What’s the appropriate amount to spend? Should I even take her out? That seems like too much pressure. Help!

Dear reader,

Everyone knows Valentine’s Day is really just for girls. Not too many guys get upset if their gal doesn’t plan something or buy them a gift. On the other hand, if the guy doesn’t do something special for his girl, he becomes the biggest jerk on Earth.

Now to your question.

You said you just started dating her a week ago. If you really like her, you have to do something with her for Valentine’s Day. The problem is that you have to tread very lightly and really put some thought into what you plan to do.

Buying her a gift is nice, but that can send mixed messages. Flowers, for example, are great, but what kind? Roses are very nice, but they can be taken as, “Wow, this guy bought me roses! He must really like me a lot.” Or if you send a mixed bouquet, you set yourself up for, “He sent me mixed flowers. He just went through the motions of getting me something.”

In my experience with women, I have found they are delicate creatures with a deep thought process. They tend to think about things a lot more than dumb guys do. I’ve also learned that no matter how hard I try to do the right thing, I always screw it up. This explains why I’m single.

Going to the movies on Valentine’s Day is a good idea, but then again you have to be careful what you take her to see. If you take her to a chick movie, you’ll be the sensitive guy who’s really into her. If you take her to the redneck action movie with guns and explosives, you’ll be the insensitive jerk you probably really are.

When you just start dating, Valentine’s Day is very tricky. You can really screw yourself up. Like I said before, all the pressure falls on the guy. No matter what, it’s our fault if something goes wrong. I really think they should quit calling it Valentine’s Day and call it Prove Yourself to your Girl Day.

Now, before all you girls start hating me, understand this: I like Valentine’s Day. I like to think I’m an old-fashioned romantic. I like buying gifts, taking girls out to dinner, and so on. The sad fact is that the older I get, there are fewer times I get a chance to do this. I don’t even have a date for Valentine’s Day. It’s pretty sad when you’re happy you have to work that night. I can at least watch everyone else enjoy their hot dates.

What I really think you should do is call your girl and say, “Hey, I’d like to take you out on Valentine’s Day. Come over my house, I’ll cook dinner and then we can go have a drink somewhere.” For that matter, come to Liquid Assets and I can wait on you and give you pointers while you drink. God knows I won’t be doing anything else.

I had a good friend from Sussex County who had the same problem you’re having. Finally, he brainstormed the greatest, most romantic, original Valentine’s Day message for his gal. It had been snowing that morning, so he drank a 12 pack of Natural Light and peed “Happy Valentine’s Day, Roberta Anne” in the snow. Then, he ran inside her trailer and brought her out blindfolded to show her. To this day, I still get a tear in my eye when I ride by their trailer park and see all seven of their kids playing in the yard. I can’t help but think it was his Valentine’s Day creativity that landed him the girl of his dreams. I just hope I’m invited to their wedding.

I hope I’ve been of some help. Just do your best and try not to screw up.

P.S. Any of you gals who don’t have plans, come to Liquid Assets on Valentine’s Day and I’ll buy you a drink.

modern women

Understanding modern women in dating; men, Venus is closer than you think.

Friday night is date night and women all over campus are preparing to get their hair right and model their outfits in front of their roommates to decide on the perfect thing to wear.

It’s no secret that when it comes to dating and the race to tie the knot, BYU is doing victory laps around most schools.

“I think it’s scary how fast people get married here at BYU,” said Kendra Sherman, a senior from The Woodlands, Texas, studying piano performance. “I’ve heard of people getting engaged after only knowing each other for two weeks.”

While dating culture at the Y may be comparable to a rampant disease, navigating the dating jungle is just as foreign to the fresh freshmen as it is to the super seniors. This is most likely because marriage is so incredibly important that students often over-complicate the issue.

“What modern women looking for? A guy who has a good sense of humor, someone down to earth, someone that is not head over heels in love with themselves,” said Mark Ogletree, an associate visiting professor in the Department of Church History and Doctrine, in an email. “They want a guy who loves the gospel, is well balanced and doesn’t come on too strong.”

Along with Ogletree, women are lining up and echoing his words.

“I wanted my dates to be kind, funny, honest and patient,” said Kamrie Kingston, a senior from The Woodlands, Texas, studying exercise and wellness. “If something went wrong I didn’t want him to get angry and frustrated.”

When modern women finally decide their hair is perfect and the outfit is chosen, their thoughts focus completely on their date. Tiffany Wixom, a senior from Draper, studying art history, said her date will be evaluated from the beginning of the date until the end.

“When he opens the door, I want him to smile and be happy to see me,” Wixom said. “I want conversation in the car, and for him to be interested in me. Lastly, I want a fun activity where we can talk and have fun.”

Like a bad math problem, finding the right date is something that men often fear, but women aren’t expecting an extravagant plan, just something simple.

“Effective dates [involve getting] to know a person,” Ogletree said. “Build something together, solve a problem, do a service project of some kind, do something that is physical and perhaps a little strenuous. You cannot only see each other when you are all ‘foo-fooed’ up. ”

First impressions are important, and they can mean the difference between future dates and the silent treatment. To achieve date number two, women emphasize that men must live up to the dating code.

“Guys need to open the doors, be willing to pay for a meal and focus on their dates,” Sherman said.

Every modern women is different and each has her own needs, but it is the responsibility of the guys to step up, be the best they can be and cherish their dates.

“At the end of the day all I want is good conversation, no awkwardness, a nice good-bye hug and maybe a follow-up text,” Wixom said.

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